Beauty Standards

I am one of those who seeks beauty.. I wish and try to lose weight.. but when you come to think of it, what is beauty... does it really have a standard?...
why does a girl who is naturally overweight, try her best to lose weight and feel bad cuz she is not that thin...
why does a girl who is short, has to try to always wear high heels to look "better"...
in the past curvy women where the symbol of beauty and the paintings prove my words...
in the past connected thick eyebrows were wut women seek and there are videos to prove my words..

there was a time when chubby men, were sexy cuz it referred to wealthiness and nobel..
there was a time when the afro type hair and the charleston paints where the hit...

those beauty "standards" differed all over time and I bet that what is beautifull now was not beautifull in the past..

but the question is, is it really worth?.. or is it really true?

wut if a chubby girl can not lose weight...
I for example will never ever be that petite figure, just cuz i am super tall and there fore have big bones...
so should i just go kill myself...
wut about a skinny guy, who is not all into that gym and stuff.. should we also look down at him.. saying he is not up to the "standards"

the standards are different from one person to the other... wut i c as the meaning of beauty will never be the same as u c it.. u might even c it ugly..

I won't tell u that beauty is from within, as it is always said, just cuz it will never get to u.. but trust me one day u'll know it is true...

i'll tell u this... u'll never be beautiful until u r who u r .... u need to find that person and accept it.. though it is hard.. but trust me when u love it, others will follow...

I always tried to follow the standards, the norm... and always cried on not achieving the standards of "losing weight, having a bf" and all those things that say u r beautiful....
but it is never about that... u r beautiful cuz u simply r.. each and everyone of us is beautiful the way they r, the way they truly r, u just need to believe it and let other ppl c it...

look around and think who is beautiful, u'll find that we only see beauty when we love the person in front of us... i agree that appearance differ but only for seconds... there is much more than that...
u might think that ppl would skip on knowing you cuz of ur appearance.. i'll say yes, i thought so too... but know wut it turned out that it is not due to appearance, nor discriminations its due to those radiations you gave them... those saying you think u r better than me and that is why u will not get to know me... guess what this y they did not get to know.. u just told them not to.. u told them that u think they r a snob.. they did not do it on their own..

I can only asl for an experiment if you do not believe... spend 5 days saying to ur self that u r beautiful and ppl would love to know... each morning for atleast 10 times and before you go to sleep and if u r meeting someone important... trust that it will work and see...

send the radiations saying , i am a very interesting beautiful person and would love to get to know u.... and before sending it to ppl, send it to your own self... feel it.. trust it...

Also write a list of all those who u think brings you down for that.. check if they really do or is it just u... next time they try do not give them the chance.. believe in the saying "3agb nafsy" "I like who i am"...

beauty comes only from love... so love yourself, love the ppl and let them love u... only then u will b beautiful, even more than u ever thought u r or will be...

:)))

P.S.
this piece is inspired from one of the most beautiful friends i've ever known.. and i am not saying this as a "mogamla" bss wALLAHy for true... thnxx a zillion...
I also tagged different ppl which is not my usual thing.. but i thought i wanna share this one, with the special ppl and some who i thought would understand and appreciate it...